"I take care of yourself my nine children. Busy father
preaching. Although he never got to watch over the birth
his sons, "said my new acquaintance, a woman veiled in a tone
full of pride. We are indeed talking about the struggle trip
our respective families.
New friends had to continue the story, "I wanted to imitate Siti Hajar,
that Ibrahim left alone to care for baby Ishmael to grow
become a pious child. "Subhanallah, really noble ideals friend
I was.
Because of his goals that he never wanted to disrupt the activities of proselytizing
her husband with the affairs of children. The nine children were no longer
have a sense of longing when his father left behind, because the lack of bonding
Inner between fathers with their children.
Hopefully, I thought to myself, desire to emulate Siti Hajar could
achieved. However, is it true that we should imitate as closely?
Lest we later forced to part with her child's father
for no reason, because of the magical stories wish to emulate the same Siti Hajar
exactly.
Certainly not be the same as it was the life of human beings in
this earth, is not it? The story of the life of Ishmael as God is a special scenario
that can not be followed by indiscriminate. When the Holy Prophet was born
in a state of orphans, children should we have also exactly the
similar?
Through the Qur'an and the example of the Prophet, has outlined the limits
a father's responsibility towards his family, without disturbing activity
propaganda struggle. This is what we have to look up in life
day-to-day. But we also prepare ourselves if in one condition
particular, the attitude of Siti Hajar who should be our example. Is not so
the best solution? Then what about my friends (only)
Siti Hajar want to emulate that?
Who dares claim to be more troublesome, more difficult and more
many exams in da'wah than that experienced by the Prophet?
But apparently his preaching schedule along with a super solid
even then he always took time to interact with family,
even taking a role big enough there.
Management time management made the Prophet should also follow.
In the limited time available Prophet always communicating
and harmony and assist the work of his wives. Now, at the age
are far more advanced than at the time of the Prophet, in which the tool
telecommunications and transportation are super sophisticated, masihkah deservedly
fathers, preachers, hands off from the household to the flurry
used as propaganda scapegoat?
Education of children, do not think only mothers affairs. What is God's purpose
include educational dialogue between Luqman Al-Hakim with his son?
Of course, the magnitude of God's will affirm the responsibility of the father
educating children in science discovery even now
proves, kids active assistance from his father, more
developing intelligence and mental ability compared to those who
only actively nurtured by his mother.
Balancing Da'wah and Family
Propagation Schedule a solid, which requires a lot more fathers
outside the home, concentrate on it, it does not
should be avoided. All you need to do is restructure management
time management, so with little time available all the objectives can be
achieved. How tricks?
Maintain harmony & Communications
Regularly and in full justice, the Prophet secar regularly rotate days
where he spent the night from one house to the other wives. But in
the day, he still found time to get around to meet
all wives from one house to another, at least to inquire
their condition on the day ..
The same thing can be exemplified in the present while maintaining
establishment of communication between husband and wife, although the husband was away from
house.
No phones, mobile phones, internet and even get through the thousands
kilometer though. Took his wife called from work every day
This was a lot of anticipation of meeting the short time
husbands and wives at home every day.
In addition to the frequency of meetings preserve, as well as quality. In a
history tells us took time to smell the Prophet
his wives when they went to the mosque praying. Full
harmony, is not it?
Auxiliary Work Wife
Occasionally took time to fry eggs for breakfast, ironed
the shirt itself, watering the yard, why not? Apaalgi if
household tasks are done together wife,
will not add to the harmony?
Regarding the Prophet in his habits, A'ishah said, "He
always helping the household. And when it comes time to pray, he
immediately rushed to do it. "(Bukhari)
Push Develop Potential Wife
Hafsah ra, are especially encouraged by the Prophet to develop
expertise in writing is beautiful. He brings a special teacher for
his wife. For Aisha clever, he pushed for his wife
develop the potential of its intelligence that later became
one hadith expert and theologian to become a teacher for
another friend. Another wife, Zainab, actualize itself as
entrepreneur home industry by leveraging its expertise in making crafts
hand. From the results
Zainab efforts were able berinfaq most wives compared
other.
Establish ties with the Inner Child
There's no reason not to meddle education affairs. Affair
This one is not only the responsibility of the mother, but also a father. How busy-busy
The Messenger of Allah, he was always hanging out close to the daughter or daughter,
so Fatimah, the daughter he loved last, after the death
mother Khadijah ra, a kid who serve the needs of day-to-day
his father, while his wife substitute, sebaagi friend, as an entertainer,
as well as a cadre of propaganda, and became the most close to the heart
father. That example of the Prophet Muhammad, who managed to establish ties
mind with his daughter, although busy with their preaching.
Recommend Child in the World of Work Dad
Best Ways to deal with little time to gather the fathers
each child is immerse yourself in the world respectively. Father
immerse yourself in the world of child's play, when there is little time at home.
Instead his father introduced the world to a child. As a
carried the prophet Muhammad, while bringing little Fatimah with her when
preaching in Mecca. Fatimah small saw with his own eyes
how his father despised, reviled and cursed the unbelievers of Quraysh. When
they put manure on the backs of the prophet when he was prostrated
front of the Kaaba, Fatima was the one who cleaned it with tears.
Every now and then take the child to the office, get to know the tools of the existing work in
there, and knowing what his father worked all day, does not
it can be done to familiarize the father and son?
preaching. Although he never got to watch over the birth
his sons, "said my new acquaintance, a woman veiled in a tone
full of pride. We are indeed talking about the struggle trip
our respective families.
New friends had to continue the story, "I wanted to imitate Siti Hajar,
that Ibrahim left alone to care for baby Ishmael to grow
become a pious child. "Subhanallah, really noble ideals friend
I was.
Because of his goals that he never wanted to disrupt the activities of proselytizing
her husband with the affairs of children. The nine children were no longer
have a sense of longing when his father left behind, because the lack of bonding
Inner between fathers with their children.
Hopefully, I thought to myself, desire to emulate Siti Hajar could
achieved. However, is it true that we should imitate as closely?
Lest we later forced to part with her child's father
for no reason, because of the magical stories wish to emulate the same Siti Hajar
exactly.
Certainly not be the same as it was the life of human beings in
this earth, is not it? The story of the life of Ishmael as God is a special scenario
that can not be followed by indiscriminate. When the Holy Prophet was born
in a state of orphans, children should we have also exactly the
similar?
Through the Qur'an and the example of the Prophet, has outlined the limits
a father's responsibility towards his family, without disturbing activity
propaganda struggle. This is what we have to look up in life
day-to-day. But we also prepare ourselves if in one condition
particular, the attitude of Siti Hajar who should be our example. Is not so
the best solution? Then what about my friends (only)
Siti Hajar want to emulate that?
Who dares claim to be more troublesome, more difficult and more
many exams in da'wah than that experienced by the Prophet?
But apparently his preaching schedule along with a super solid
even then he always took time to interact with family,
even taking a role big enough there.
Management time management made the Prophet should also follow.
In the limited time available Prophet always communicating
and harmony and assist the work of his wives. Now, at the age
are far more advanced than at the time of the Prophet, in which the tool
telecommunications and transportation are super sophisticated, masihkah deservedly
fathers, preachers, hands off from the household to the flurry
used as propaganda scapegoat?
Education of children, do not think only mothers affairs. What is God's purpose
include educational dialogue between Luqman Al-Hakim with his son?
Of course, the magnitude of God's will affirm the responsibility of the father
educating children in science discovery even now
proves, kids active assistance from his father, more
developing intelligence and mental ability compared to those who
only actively nurtured by his mother.
Balancing Da'wah and Family
Propagation Schedule a solid, which requires a lot more fathers
outside the home, concentrate on it, it does not
should be avoided. All you need to do is restructure management
time management, so with little time available all the objectives can be
achieved. How tricks?
Maintain harmony & Communications
Regularly and in full justice, the Prophet secar regularly rotate days
where he spent the night from one house to the other wives. But in
the day, he still found time to get around to meet
all wives from one house to another, at least to inquire
their condition on the day ..
The same thing can be exemplified in the present while maintaining
establishment of communication between husband and wife, although the husband was away from
house.
No phones, mobile phones, internet and even get through the thousands
kilometer though. Took his wife called from work every day
This was a lot of anticipation of meeting the short time
husbands and wives at home every day.
In addition to the frequency of meetings preserve, as well as quality. In a
history tells us took time to smell the Prophet
his wives when they went to the mosque praying. Full
harmony, is not it?
Auxiliary Work Wife
Occasionally took time to fry eggs for breakfast, ironed
the shirt itself, watering the yard, why not? Apaalgi if
household tasks are done together wife,
will not add to the harmony?
Regarding the Prophet in his habits, A'ishah said, "He
always helping the household. And when it comes time to pray, he
immediately rushed to do it. "(Bukhari)
Push Develop Potential Wife
Hafsah ra, are especially encouraged by the Prophet to develop
expertise in writing is beautiful. He brings a special teacher for
his wife. For Aisha clever, he pushed for his wife
develop the potential of its intelligence that later became
one hadith expert and theologian to become a teacher for
another friend. Another wife, Zainab, actualize itself as
entrepreneur home industry by leveraging its expertise in making crafts
hand. From the results
Zainab efforts were able berinfaq most wives compared
other.
Establish ties with the Inner Child
There's no reason not to meddle education affairs. Affair
This one is not only the responsibility of the mother, but also a father. How busy-busy
The Messenger of Allah, he was always hanging out close to the daughter or daughter,
so Fatimah, the daughter he loved last, after the death
mother Khadijah ra, a kid who serve the needs of day-to-day
his father, while his wife substitute, sebaagi friend, as an entertainer,
as well as a cadre of propaganda, and became the most close to the heart
father. That example of the Prophet Muhammad, who managed to establish ties
mind with his daughter, although busy with their preaching.
Recommend Child in the World of Work Dad
Best Ways to deal with little time to gather the fathers
each child is immerse yourself in the world respectively. Father
immerse yourself in the world of child's play, when there is little time at home.
Instead his father introduced the world to a child. As a
carried the prophet Muhammad, while bringing little Fatimah with her when
preaching in Mecca. Fatimah small saw with his own eyes
how his father despised, reviled and cursed the unbelievers of Quraysh. When
they put manure on the backs of the prophet when he was prostrated
front of the Kaaba, Fatima was the one who cleaned it with tears.
Every now and then take the child to the office, get to know the tools of the existing work in
there, and knowing what his father worked all day, does not
it can be done to familiarize the father and son?